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However, there are no guidelines or specialists to help an athlete come to terms with not being able to follow their passion. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n More athletes fail than succeed but no one ever talks about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It is easy as a child: one\u2019s family pays the bills and there is little sacrifice involved. But then athletes start growing up and that passion is still there but the world isn\u2019t as small anymore. There suddenly becomes a cost for playing a sport.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Gillis-Bateman, 24, was a football player who had to let the goal of going professional go. He now plays rugby on Algonquin College\u2019s OCAA team.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Now, Gillis-Bateman dedicates five days out of the week for an hour and a half practices and then usually three to four hours on weekends for games. And that\u2019s just for college rugby.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cIt is a big chunk of my time,\u201d he says. \u201cThere is a lot of sacrifices, you got to sacrifice family time, friends time, any social event you got to put aside. Just the way it plays out, you know?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Before the knee injury, Gillis-Bateman thought about going pro in football. Instead of going straight to university, he decided to get a trade under his belt. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n Gillis-Bateman went into welding and soon found himself going straight into the workforce, all while he was still playing football and working towards his goal. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n Then he got injured. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cIt seemed life happened all at once,\u201d he says. \u201cIt shook my world a little bit and it brought me back to reality.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n That reality, he says, was he may never have been big enough to play at the highest level of football, injury or no injury.<\/p>\n\n\n\n With his world spinning, Gillis-Bateman was heartbroken.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sport becomes such a huge part of an athlete\u2019s life that when the dream they were trying to accomplish gets ripped out from under them, it can feel like someone else is in their reflection. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cThere is always that idea you could go further and play for the highest level you can, but once you get more level-headed it\u2019s a humbling experience,\u201d Gillis-Bateman says.<\/p>\n\n\n\n For some athletes, the day they realize that not all dreams come true is not a single day. 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